How Much Do Surrogates Really Get Paid
The question surrounding how much surrogates really get paid is something that is asked all over the world, it’s a big step in someone’s life, and a very emotional decision for a woman. Understanding the finances is just as important as understanding all the other factors of surrogacy.
In this article, we will explain how the payments work, what extra support a surrogate can receive, and what to expect before, during, and after the baby is born.
We are here to help make it easy for you to understand. We know that talking about money in surrogacy can sometimes feel uncomfortable, we want you to know that the compensation isn’t about ‘buying’ a service, it’s a way to show your appreciation, support, and respect to a woman who has given an incredible amount of time, energy, and emotional strength it takes to carry a child for other people.
Understanding Surrogate Compensation
Choosing to be a surrogate mother is a meaningful decision, it involves a lot of emotional and physical commitment. There is also financial compensation that can be included in surrogacy. The answer to how much they get paid depends on the location, their experience and the type of surrogacy you would be doing.
We are going to break it down for you and explain the amounts a surrogate receives, any additional reimbursements that are issued and the legal structures.
Base Compensation
A base compensation is a fixed amount a surrogate mother receives for successfully carrying a pregnancy to full term. The average amount a first time surrogate can earn is between $22,000–$35,000, but experienced surrogates that understand the process can receive more.
The base amount excludes things like benefits, allowances or reimbursements, it is just the surrogate’s salary for her time, risk, and dedication.
Additional Benefits and Allowances
There are a number of additional benefits and allowances a surrogate receives in a package. A monthly allowance that ranges between $200 and $700, maternity clothing allowance, an embryo transfer payment, travel reimbursement, childcare and housekeeping support, compensation for a loss of wages, life insurance coverage and invasive procedure fees, for example amniocentesis which is a prenatal test or dilation and curettage (D&C) which is a procedure to remove tissue from the uterus are some of the added amounts a surrogate can receive.
Altogether, the benefits and reimbursements total around $5,000–$15,000 or more.
Surrogate Pay Breakdown
Pre-Pregnancy Payments
These payments are for the surrogate’s time, effort and the early medical involvement prior to the confirmation of the pregnancy.
The surrogate’s first payment is a one-time payment that some agencies or intended parents offer when they join the programme and it helps with covering any early costs that she may have, like travel to appointments. This is called a signing bonus and can be between $500–$1,000.
The next pre-pregnancy payment she receives is when she begins hormone treatment and IVF preparation, it compensates her for the emotional and physical demands involved in the medical process including the time off work or possible side effects. Generally, it is called a “start-of-medication” fee and ranges between $250–$500.
The third pre-pregnancy payment is for the embryo transfer. It covers the inconvenience, recovery time, and any related medical instructions for the procedure. The payment for this is between $300–$800.
During Pregnancy Payments
These payments are aimed at supporting the surrogate throughout the pregnancy, it reflects how much time, the health risks and responsibilities she has put into being a surrogate.
A monthly base payment that is paid over 9 months is received to provide stability during the process. It reflects the ongoing commitment, health risks, and adjustments to her lifestyle required.
There is an allowance for essential costs like travel, vitamins, medical appointments. It makes sure the surrogate doesn’t pay for anything herself. This amount can range between $400–$600./span>
A bonus can be issued if there is a twin pregnancy as it increases the medical risk and causes physical strain. It compensates the surrogate for any other difficulties, this could be extra bed rest or a premature birth. The bonus can be anywhere up to $5,000.
A caesarean section, also known as a C-section, is a major surgery and it requires a longer recovery time, more medical attention, and potentially more complications. The payment is to reflect the seriousness and impact of the procedure and it can be an additional $2,500–$4,000.
Post-Pregnancy Payments
Post-pregnancy payments are given at the end of the journey.
After giving birth, recovery can take weeks to months of physical and emotional healing. The allowance recognises the effort and supports her during this period. This allowance tends to be between $300–$600.
Some surrogate mothers need ongoing medical checkups after the birth to make sure their health is prioritised and they have no financial stress, the amount they receive for this is usually between $300–$500 per visit.
When the baby arrives and the legal handover has been completed, the surrogate will receive their final instalment. This installment is usually between $19,000–$25,000.
All of the payments are usually made via escrow to ensure the security and timely delivery of payments to the surrogate.
Factors Influencing Surrogate Pay
Location-Based Compensation
The amount a surrogate receives varies from country to country or state to state. For example, if you live in a state like California or New York the compensation given is higher (around $45,000 to $80,000 depending on experience) due to the cost of living and demand for a surrogate. In rural areas or states with a reduced legal protection, the pay can be lower. And in other states it is either not allowed or unpaid, this is called altruistic surrogacy. On the other hand, in countries like Georgia or Colombia the surrogate can receive significantly lower amounts that range from $12,000 to $20,000, this is why many people choose to do surrogacy in another country.
Experience and Previous Surrogacy
If a surrogate has previously participated in surrogacy, they receive a much higher offer. You can expect agencies to offer anything between $2,000 to $5,000 for women who have had a successful surrogacy in the past. The reason for this is because they are considered to be lower risk, predictable, and familiar to the process.
Medical Expenses and Insurance
The medical expenses and insurance related to the pregnancy including IVF procedures, prenatal care, and the delivery of the baby are covered by the intended parents or through a type of surrogacy insurance. Surrogates are not expected to pay for anything that could make them out of pocket to their usual lifestyle.
Surrogacy Costs and Financial Planning
Total Cost of Surrogacy
The usual costs for surrogacy does vary but we have provided a list of the typical costs involved below;
- Surrogate compensation: $25,000
- Agency fees: $15,000–$30,000
- Legal and contract work: $5,000–$10,000
- IVF and fertility clinic: $20,000–$40,000
- Insurance and contingencies: $5,000–$15,000
- Total range: $80,000 to $150,000+
If you are looking at surrogacy at an international level, these costs can be lower. We strongly advise you to research the countries you are considering or contact us and we will provide you with any advice we can.
Cost of Surrogacy with Friends or Family
Sometimes, friends or a family member of the intended parents can act as a surrogate, however, the agreement becomes altruistic and not commercial surrogacy causing the costs to decrease. This type of surrogate would not receive compensation due to the personal connection with the intended parents. A close relationship with someone who is your surrogate can still have its complications and it is still recommended that you take some steps during the process. The suggestive steps to include is making sure there is a formal legal contract in place, the intended parents cover all medical expenses and give a gift of some kind to the surrogate like maternity support or even post-birth care.
Even though altruistic isn’t as costly as commercial surrogacy, the support to the surrogate should never be neglected.
Finding an Affordable Surrogate
Many intended parents find the surrogacy finances overwhelming, however, it’s good to know there are ways to reduce the costs ethically and responsibly. Such options are choosing agencies in smaller cities, regions or a different country as well as considering working with an independent surrogate.
One option is to choose an agency in areas with a lower cost of living as they tend to have lower base compensation rates and service fees. Or you can choose an agency in another country, but you have to be cautious of the ethical, legal and medical standards plus you need to consider the cost of travelling and citizenship complications that can come to light.
It can be beneficial to work with an independent surrogate to reduce costs, but, it does need a higher personal involvement like handling the legal contracts, communication, and support services yourself.
It’s ok to look for savings in surrogacy, but it’s important corners aren’t cut when it comes to legal protection, the surrogates’ wellbeing and their medical safety as it can lead to serious complications, disputes, or a legally invalid surrogacy arrangement.
Legal Aspects of Surrogate Compensation
Contracts and Agreements
It doesn’t matter which type of surrogacy you are going ahead with, whether it’s traditional or gestational, commercial or altruistic, a legal agreement is highly important as it protects both the intended parents and the surrogate.
Every surrogacy contract should include the exact amount and timing of all the payments, such as base compensation, allowances or bonuses. It should state what happens in instances where there is a miscarriage, medical issues or a pregnancy with multiple children. The other points that should be included are who makes the decisions during any medical emergencies, parental rights and custody arrangements and the expectation from the surrogate like maintaining medical appointments.
Attorneys must prepare and review the contract in the state or country where the surrogacy is taking place and it is usually signed prior to process beginning.
Tax Implications for Surrogates
Depending on the location of the surrogacy, tax implications can be a factor. If the surrogate’s country doesn’t tax compensation, the intended parents might have legal or tax responsibilities in their own country. Even more so when there are large sums of money included. Anyone who looks into surrogacy should consider speaking with specialists to discuss.
Steps to Begin Your Surrogacy Journey
It is overwhelming when you decide you are going to start a surrogacy journey, so we have prepared the following steps to guide you and help make the process smoother and more manageable;
- Research surrogacy laws in your state or country – the laws vary everywhere. It’s advised to research whether surrogacy is legal where you or the surrogate live and whether commercial or altruistic surrogacy is allowed.
- Choose between an agency or independent path – Agencies provide full support, the benefits in each package can differ with different types of benefits in the package, depending on what you would like to have included in a package it can come with additional costs. The independent path can be more affordable for some people, but the amount of personal involvement can be a struggle for some people.
- Define your budget and financial resources – Work out how much everything will cost and make sure you can cover the funds, consider using escrow to make the payments manageable.
- Begin the matching process – Agencies will match you with a surrogate based on any preferences you have. In an independent journey, you will need to look for one yourself.
- Sign contracts and complete screenings – The legal contracts need to be drafted and signed by everyone involved. Once signed, the surrogate will go through psychological, medical, and background checks to ensure they are physically and emotionally ready for what is ahead.
- Start of the medical procedures and embryo transfer – When step 5 has been completed, the medications, hormone treatments, IVF and embryo transfer begins for the intended mother and surrogate.
- Maintaining open, respectful communication with your surrogate – communication is such a big part of the journey, and it’s important to feel like there are regular updates from the surrogate. It gives everyone involved a sense of stability to the intended parents and builds trust between the two.
- Prepare for delivery and legal finalisation – When it comes closer to the due date of the baby, the legal arrangements for parental rights must be completed, this will make sure the intended parents are recognised as the baby’s legal parents from the moment of the birth.
Surrogacy is different for everyone and that’s why you should work with specialists and professionals to be guided through the emotional, legal, and financial steps of your journey.
Frequently Asked Questions about Surrogate Pay
How Much Do Surrogates Make?
The average amount a surrogate receives is between $22,000 and $35,000, depending on their location, experience, and pregnancy.
Do Surrogates Get Paid If They Don’t Get Pregnant?
Yes, but they don’t receive a base salary, however, they are still compensated for their time and effort. The compensation they could receive is the medical screening fee, start-of-medication fee or embryo transfer fee. They can also receive partial payments if the pregnancy isn’t successful, this is to recognise the surrogate’s commitment.
Are There Bonuses for Experienced Surrogates?
Experienced surrogacy can receive a higher amount, this is usually because they are seen as being a lower risk pregnancy, and provide extra reassurance to intended parents due to already completing the process. They can also receive priority matching or expanded benefit packages.
What Happens If Complications Arise?
Most surrogacy legal contracts are detailed and clear in what is expected from the surrogate and the intended parents. It will account for things like bed rest, hospitalisation, emergency procedures or post-birth recovery compensation. It protects both parties involved and gives them a peace of mind.
